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		<title>Discover How To Manage Your Time In 3 Easy Steps</title>
		<link>http://www.blackmylar.com/2008/08/discover-how-to-manage-your-time-in-3-easy-steps/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>MayaMah</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[There must be a reason why some people can just handle all the tasks that are thrown at them. They can handle the urgent items on their to do lists, the unexpected project changes that show up and even their personal commitments.
The reason these people can easily succeed in what they put their eyes on, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There must be a reason why some people can just handle all the tasks that are thrown at them. They can handle the urgent items on their to do lists, the unexpected project changes that show up and even their personal commitments.</p>
<p>The reason these people can easily succeed in what they put their eyes on, get the important stuff done and enjoy time with their families is because they have mastered the art of time management.</p>
<p>Wouldn&#8217;t you like to know how they do it?</p>
<p>Would you like to know how you too can manage your time easily?</p>
<p>Here are just 3 of the most powerful techniques that these people use.</p>
<p>Some of the strategies may sound like &#8220;common sense&#8221; to you, but please don&#8217;t just ignore them, use them and you&#8217;ll be pleasantly surprised by the effectiveness of these strategies - even the ones that sound like common sense.</p>
<p>Time Management Strategy 1:<br />
<br />Gaining Clarity</p>
<p>Most people stress out and can&#8217;t seem to figure out what they are doing, why they&#8217;re doing it and what the most important thing they need to do is. The reason for this painful overwhelm is the fact that most people don&#8217;t spend time gaining clarity.</p>
<p>Clarity is an important prerequisite for productivity. If you are not clear, you are not going to have a highly productive day.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s why - when you are not clear, your mind is still running out trying to find solutions to all the other problems or issues that you are facing and so it&#8217;s easy for you to stress out.</p>
<p>The easiest way to boost productivity is to gain clarity.</p>
<p>Ask yourself</p>
<p>1. What are all the things that need to get done?</p>
<p>2. What are the goals I have?</p>
<p>3. What&#8217;s the priority level of each goal?</p>
<p>Time Management Strategy 2:<br />
<br />Worrying Less and Getting More done</p>
<p>Are you giving yourself the rest, relaxation and &ldquo;vacation&rdquo; time that you deserve?</p>
<p>If you are like most people today, you probably are not. And, here&rsquo;s the problem with that &ndash; when you don&rsquo;t relax, you are decreasing the level of your productivity. A tired mind is a terrible problem solver!</p>
<p>Have you ever tried solving an important problem at 11PM or even at 1AM after a very long and tiring day? Did it work? How long did it take?</p>
<p>You see, when you are not relaxed, even simple problems take long to get solved and end up wasting a lot more time than they deserve!</p>
<p>Give yourself frequent and short relaxing breaks during the work day and set aside some quality time to spend with your family doing what relaxes you so that you can prepare for another highly productive day at work!</p>
<p>Time Management Strategy 3:<br />
<br />Learning How to Prioritize</p>
<p>The biggest time management problem you and I face today is - not knowing what the most important thing to do at the current moment is.</p>
<p>And, it also kills your productivity. When you don&#8217;t know what the most important thing on your list is, your mind is still running around trying to figure out if there are some other potential landmines that need to be dealt with instead of what you&#8217;re working on right now.</p>
<p>How do you solve this problem?</p>
<p>You take the questions you asked in step 1 (gaining clarity) and then you look at all the tasks that need to get done and pick the one that&#8217;s most important and has the highest level of priority.</p>
<p>Is your to do list overwhelming you? Do you find yourself stuck with an endless mountain of tasks? Are you unable to make progress on things that are most important to you? Discover how you can easily turn that around and master your to do list. Join the best <a href="http://www.managemytimenow.com"> Free time management course</a> and get 7 highly effective time management strategies for free.</p>
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		<title>Improving Relationship Quality in Two Simple Steps</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>DonDewsnap</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[To improve something is to make it better. To make something better is to improve its quality. To improve a relationship, increase its quality.
What is quality in a relationship? Two simple words: confidence, and togetherness.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To improve something is to make it better. To make something better is to improve its quality. To improve a relationship, increase its quality.</p>
<p>What is quality in a relationship? Two simple words: confidence, and togetherness.</p>
<p>Confidence is not the same as trust. Trust is often based as much on hope as on reason, and is lost for small reasons or no reason at all. One instance of poor judgment can break a person&#8217;s trust in another. Your guy goes to the track with his friends and loses the rent money. After that, you don&#8217;t trust him with the rent money. So trust is far too fragile to base a relationship on.</p>
<p>Confidence is knowing he will be there, with his strengths and his weaknesses for sure, but there. The thing is, confidence works in both directions, or doesn&#8217;t work at all. Fortunately, increasing confidence in one direction also increases it in the other. Which leads to the first simple step of improving a relationship: increase his/her confidence in you.</p>
<p>Improvements don&#8217;t happen all at once: they are made up of small steps in the right direction. Anyone can take these small steps to improve the confidence others have in him. By taking them, you automatically improve the quality of the relationship. Here are some of the small steps, some of the things you can do today, tomorrow, and every day.</p>
<p>Confidence is knowing she will be there, so her confidence in you is knowing you will be there. So be there. Physically, be where you say you will be when you say you will be. If she expects you to be home when she gets there, be there, or leave a note saying why you are not and when you will be back. It seems a small, almost unimportant, thing, but it is perhaps the most important of all in building confidence.</p>
<p>People are disappointed by many people every day. All you have to do is be the one person who almost never disappoints. It really is very easy. Just be there. This does not mean you are at her beck and call. It only means you are where you say you will be when you say you will be there. It&#8217;s a goal to work toward, that anyone can get better at.</p>
<p>Togetherness is the other part of a relationship. Especially, being together and doing things together. No relationship will long survive fierce independence. Keep in mind, you don&#8217;t give up your freedom in a relationship &#8212; you add to it. Two people together are free to do far more than one person alone.</p>
<p>Togetherness grows not by demanding, but by offering. So here is the second simple step to improving a relationship: be willing to be together, even if sometimes it is not fun. Take it in small steps, perhaps by offering to go to the hardware store with him, or in the reverse, to go clothes shopping with her. Not only is this togetherness time, it is also a way to learn more about why he/she enjoys what it is you are doing with him/her.</p>
<p>As a practical exercise, to get you started, the next time she goes to the store, offer to go with her. The next time you go to the store, ask him if he would like to come, and tell him you would like his company. He/she may not want to, and that&#8217;s okay. But keep offering, keep asking. When you do get a yes, make it a together trip, not one of you being &#8220;dragged along.&#8221; Ask questions; let her show off her knowledge in an area you are not as familiar with. Make togetherness time a learning time. Mostly, you will be learning more about him/her.</p>
<p>Togetherness grows if you let it, but it grows even faster if you feed and water it. Learning more about his likes and dislikes, how he thinks, what he thinks about, how he acts in different situations, is the result of increased togetherness &#8212; and also leads to increased togetherness. All of which leads to a stronger, longer relationship.</p>
<p>These two simple steps, being there without fail and doing things together, will all by themselves improve the quality of any normal relationship as you do them more and more.</p>
<p>Don Dewsnap has spent years studying quality and its principles and applications. Now he has put his knowledge into a readable, useable book: Anyone Can Improve His or Her Life: The Principles of Quality. Find out more about this book at <a href="http://www.principles-of-quality.com">Principles-of-Quality.com</a>.</p>
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		<title>The Best Flying Websites</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JonathanMoney</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[The best flying websites on the internet today are not always the most commonly searched. Below are some great ways to find flying websites that have exactly what you&#8217;re looking for.
Flying websites can be overwhelming. Aviation itself requires an incredible amount of information, compounded by the need for up-to-the-minute weather and navigation. Many flying websites [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The best flying websites on the internet today are not always the most commonly searched. Below are some great ways to find flying websites that have exactly what you&#8217;re looking for.</p>
<p>Flying websites can be overwhelming. Aviation itself requires an incredible amount of information, compounded by the need for up-to-the-minute weather and navigation. Many flying websites are overrun with streams of this info, added pilot jargon, and splattered with photos and ads that make it impossible for the average person to comprehend. For someone looking for basic information on aviation, or to learn how to fly, the more simple and easy to understand flying website is like a diamond in the rough.</p>
<p>For the aviation curious, student pilot websites may be a better term to search for. These rookie sites seem to understand the world of non-pilots, and are better suited to put things in layman&#8217;s terms. Student pilots themselves are learning too&#8230; and they have much the same questions as the person who hasn&#8217;t yet set foot in the cockpit of a flight trainer. Give a good hard look at these student flying clubs, and see what they have to offer.</p>
<p>The better flying websites on the internet will offer aviation articles. Articles about flying are the best way to learn what to expect during flight training, whether you&#8217;re a newly licensed pilot going for an instrument rating or a veteran reading up on the experiences of others. Look for a website listing a whole section dedicated to just aviation articles, and one that keeps those articles constantly updated with fresh content. That way when you return to the website after having been away for a while there will always be something new to catch up on.</p>
<p>Flying websites need to cater to pilots too, which is why the best ones will contain flight planning information and tools necessary to get in the air safely. Some websites even offer online pilot&#8217;s tools, such as a working E6B flight emulator. These on-page flight calculators are invaluable for the student and veteran pilot, helping with all manner of wind, speed, and temperature calculations. A good flying website will not only have these tools, but will also offer links to weather and navigation information from the National Weather Service and AirNav airport directory. There are even sites online that allow pilots to view free sectional charts, and save their pilot&#8217;s logs in an electronic format.</p>
<p>Avoid cluttered, overwhelming flying websites. If the index page throws 50 different things at you, it&#8217;s probably best to turn away. You&#8217;re looking for a human element here, a website run by people who fly and not by programmers assigned the task of streaming flight information across the screen in moving banners and blinking graphics. A good flying website has all that information and more&#8230; but arranges it in such a manner that you don&#8217;t get buried by it all at once.</p>
<p>In the end, you&#8217;ve got near unlimited choices when it comes to finding your online FBO (Fixed Base of Operations). Make sure you choose a flying website with structure - a site by pilots for pilots. If it feels like home, it will be home - much like your real FBO will be should you choose to adopt one. Fly safe, surf well, and above all have fun!</p>
<p>Be sure to visit <a href="http://www.studentflyingclub.com">Student Flying Club</a> for more flying information including <a href="http://www.studentflyingclub.com/flight-planning.php">flight planning</a>, aviation articles, and flight training tools, including fully-illustrated day-by-day written flight journals of actual student pilots.</p>
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		<title>Make Sure Your Skin Care Products Produce Results</title>
		<link>http://www.blackmylar.com/2008/08/make-sure-your-skin-care-products-produce-results/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>LouiseForrest</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[It is important that you insist on results from your skin care products and you should not settle for anything less especially if you have been trying to soothe your dry skin for some time. Choose products carefully and seek the right advice if your symptoms are very severe. 
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is important that you insist on results from your skin care products and you should not settle for anything less especially if you have been trying to soothe your dry skin for some time. Choose products carefully and seek the right advice if your symptoms are very severe. </p>
<p>There are very few people who are actually blessed to have skin that is considered to be normal. The rest of the population have to deal with oily skin and the outbreak of spots; or dry skin and the fact that they are ageing well before their years or there are those who have to deal with a combination of both dryness and oiliness. </p>
<p>But if you do have dry skin then there is some good news with regards to its treatment as there are no many natural alternatives that are available. If you are not sure if you have dry skin then all you need to do is to take a good look in the mirror. If your skin feels rough or if it looks cracked and rough on the surface of the skin then it is quite likely that you are suffering from oily skin. </p>
<p>The good news is that today, there are several types of natural treatments to choose from for your dry skin.</p>
<p>There are a number of reasons as to why a person develops dry skin and a common cause of the occurrence is the taking of certain prescribed medications, and you should always consult your doctor or to read the instructions to see what possible side effects may take place prior to usage.</p>
<p>It is a fact that dry skin takes place more in the winter than in the summer. The reason for this is because the skin is exposed to the biting cold winds, and then when indoors the skin is exposed to high temperatures. This sudden change in temperature can and does cause a lot of havoc for the skin, and dryness is a consequence. </p>
<p>If you are looking to clear your dry skin and to avoid premature ageing then you need to adopt a natural skin care routine. And the best place to start is with your diet and making sure that is focused on eating fresh fruits and vegetables and staying off deep fried foods. Water is essential for the hydration of the skin so you need to be drinking no less than two liters of water on a daily basis. </p>
<p>Rather than needing to go to the shops or to view the Internet, you can use some very inexpensive products to help remedy dry skin. One of them is coconut oil. When cold this actually does solidify, so you are going to need to heat in order to obtain an actual liquid oil, that you can apply to your skin. </p>
<p>Coconut oil is very effective at soothing dry skin and it is also great for providing relief for a dry itchy scalp. It is best if you can apply the oil to your body or scalp and then to leave this overnight, and wash off in the morning. </p>
<p>Massage the oil well into the skin in order to allow it to deeply penetrate the skin. The effect is very soothing and it will also help you to sleep better to. </p>
<p>However should it be the case that regardless of what you do your dry skin does not seem to be showing any signs of improvement, then a visit to your doctor will be advised in order to obtain a full and correct diagnosis.</p>
<p>Get more information about<br />
<a href="http://www.firmfoundation.info/?page_id=73">caring for dryness</a>. Spend time learning about<br />
<a href="http://www.becomingyoga.com/?page_id=36">dry skin products</a> and get some information on <a href="http://www.the-healingcodes.com/?page_id=49">creams for dry skin</a> also.</p>
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		<title>What is Neuro-Linguistic Programming?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JohnTaylor</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) is a communication model and a very effective, and sometimes controversial, approach to psychotherapy that was introduced by Richard Bandler (A mathematician) and John Grinder (A linguist) in the 1970&#8217;s. After its introduction, NLP soon became one of the most important psychotropic and counseling tools. Before further discussion, let&#8217;s analyze the 3 [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) is a communication model and a very effective, and sometimes controversial, approach to psychotherapy that was introduced by Richard Bandler (A mathematician) and John Grinder (A linguist) in the 1970&rsquo;s. After its introduction, NLP soon became one of the most important psychotropic and counseling tools. Before further discussion, let&rsquo;s analyze the 3 words (Neuro, Linguistic and Programming) to provide you with a glimpse of what NLP is about:</p>
<p>Neuro: refers to the human nervous system that includes the brain and the five senses controlled by the brain.</p>
<p>Linguistic: refers to the verbal and the non-verbal languages that we use to communicate with others and with ourselves (inner-conversation)</p>
<p>Programming: the process of structuring or engineering our linguistic or neurological systems, in the context of NLP, to achieve a particular result.</p>
<p>NLP is a quite complex concept but its fundamentals are very easy to absorb. There are four vital fundamentals to NLP which will be discussed later in this article. These four fundamentals can be considered as steps towards a more better you. NLP has been applied in a diverse range of fields including but not exclusive to:</p>
<p>Business<br />
<br />Education<br />
<br />Sports<br />
<br />Healthcare<br />
<br />Psychology<br />
<br />Sales &#038; Marketing<br />
<br />Coaching etc.</p>
<p>People have been using NLP to remove many mental blocks that were acting as hurdles to their potential. To a large extent, what you achieve using NLP depends upon your frame of mind. However, in general, a person achieves the following common advantages from using NLP:</p>
<p>- Controlling the state of mind.<br />
<br />- Helping others to know and to get what they really want.<br />
<br />- Developing confidence and improving communication skills.<br />
<br />- Removing obstacles in your personal or professional life.</p>
<p>The fundamentals, or rather steps, of NLP are fairly simple in comparison with the overall concept of NLP. At the same time, these steps are quite powerful as they are designed after in-depth analysis of human mental patterns, various behavioral mechanisms, goal setting and achieving strategies. The human brain is the most complex machine on the face of the earth. We can never exploit it 100% but using NLP, we can at least make use of its potential power.</p>
<p>Step 1:</p>
<p>Knowing What You Want &ndash; This is the first step or fundamental of NLP; you must know exactly what you want. If you don&rsquo;t have any clear picture of your goal, then it&#8217;s unlikely that you&#8217;ll achieve it. There&#8217;s a well know phrase &#8220;If you don&#8217;t know where you&#8217;re going, you&#8217;ll end up somehwere else&#8221; which says a lot about the lack of clearly defined goals. If you know what you want, you will be able to structure your plan before moving towards your goal.</p>
<p>Step 2:</p>
<p>Taking Action - When you know what you want, you can take the appropriate action. Put your all focus towards your actions that you take to achieve your goal. In the above example, this would be the eqivalent of identifying the destination on a map, deciding the best means of travel and then planning a suitable route.</p>
<p>Step 3:</p>
<p>Carefully monitoring the outcome of your actions - For example, you know your destination, you&#8217;ve planned your route and you&#8217;ve decided to travel on your motorcycle. But when travelling in an unfamliar part of the country you need to frequently check that you are following the correct route by comparing your location with your map. It&#8217;s important that you make sure that you are travelling in the right direction and you are on schedule to arrive at your destination on time.</p>
<p>Step 4:</p>
<p>Adjust what you are doing &ndash; It might surprise you to know that an airplane spends approximately 95% of its flight off its exact course. It the job of the pilot to make small adjustments in altitude and heading to correct for the prevailing weather conditions. Similarly, when we are striving to achieve a specific goal it&#8217;s important that we monitor progress and take corrective action from time to time to keep on track. This is called behavioral flexibility. We all need to be flexible enough to change what choices we make and actions we take to achieve our goals.</p>
<p>John Taylor is a Master NLP Practitioner and has worked with many individuals, teams and organisations to help them to make lasting and enduring changes. To learn how you too can use NLP to improve your business and personal life visit John&#8217;s <a href="http://TalkAboutNLP.com">Talk About NLP blog</a>.</p>
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		<title>What is Business/Life Coaching?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JacquelinePigdon</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Business and Life Coaching is a relationship that focuses on change, the future and achieving goals both in business and life to help people live a more satisfying, successful and fulfilling life in all aspects of their lives.
How does Coaching work?
Business and Life coaching aid people to take charge of their lives by unlocking their [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Business and Life Coaching is a relationship that focuses on change, the future and achieving goals both in business and life to help people live a more satisfying, successful and fulfilling life in all aspects of their lives.</p>
<p>How does Coaching work?</p>
<p>Business and Life coaching aid people to take charge of their lives by unlocking their natural ability to perform. A coach will help you to learn and increase awareness of the factors which determine your performance, increase your sense of self-responsibility and take ownership and control of events in your life.<br />
<br />A fresh viewpoint from an objective third party can be a critical part in identifying and developing areas of improvement in all areas of life as well as for meeting the company&rsquo;s vision.</p>
<p>Through one-on-one or teams, coaching helps all individuals achieve their desired results through a combination of expanding awareness and building supportive environments that inspires growth. Coaching focuses on making changes in oneself in order for one to achieve their own goals &#038; objectives. The aim of business coaching is to align corporate objectives with individual performer skills which then ensure that all employees are contributing better in the company&rsquo;s quest to meet its objectives.</p>
<p>Who works with a Coach?</p>
<p>Business and Life coaching is a leading tool being used by both successful as well as unfulfilled people to create both inner peace and truly exceptional lives. As coaching sessions are uniquely tailored to individual needs, anyone can benefit from coaching no matter what stage they are at in their business or life. Business and Life coaching greatly facilitates an improvement in both confidence and motivation levels.</p>
<p>Clients can include people of all ages and backgrounds &ndash; from students to business owners, from mothers to managers and CEO&rsquo;s &ndash; and their goals can be just as diverse. They all have one thing in common: a desire to get more out of their lives and be who they really want to be!</p>
<p>What are the benefits of Coaching?</p>
<p>&bull; Clear path to goals<br />
<br />&bull; Develop new empowering habits<br />
<br />&bull; Increase motivation and confidence levels<br />
<br />&bull; Understand what you are doing that is holding you back from reaching your potential<br />
<br />&bull; Make dramatic improvements in your lifestyle<br />
<br />&bull; Achieve results much more rapidly than you would on your own<br />
<br />&bull; Close the gap between where you are now and where you&#8217;d like to be<br />
<br />&bull; Be supported by a coach who is 100% committed to you!</p>
<p>So if you feel unhappy at the choices that are being presented to you, uncomfortable at making certain types of life changing decisions, unsatisfied of not unleashing your true potential, being consumed by your life or business, are confused at knowing how to resolve your issues and unaccomplished since you have everything but something just doesn&rsquo;t feel quite right &ndash; get yourself a Business and/or Life Coach today!</p>
<p>We at Jina Life can help you transform your life to become a NEW YOU. We can make a difference it&rsquo;s just for you to allow it to happen.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.jinalife.com.au/">Jina Life </a> always has a coach available for your particular needs. We are considered to have one of the top <a href="http://www.jinalife.com.au/life_coaching.php">executive coaching strategies in Melbourne, Australia!</a></p>
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		<title>Great Sex But Dont Pump The Dump</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>DavidWygant</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[So, you&#8217;re dating a woman now whose only sexual experiences have been with men that are pump and dumpers. For those of you who don&#8217;t know what a pump and dumper is: it&#8217;s what I call &#8216;minutemen.&#8217;
Not the minutemen from the Revolutionary War.. They get in, they thrust their hips, they pump a few times, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, you&rsquo;re dating a woman now whose only sexual experiences have been with men that are pump and dumpers. For those of you who don&rsquo;t know what a pump and dumper is: it&rsquo;s what I call &lsquo;minutemen.&rsquo;</p>
<p>Not the minutemen from the Revolutionary War.. They get in, they thrust their hips, they pump a few times, and then they dump all their little men: all their little sea-men to swim all over the place.</p>
<p>A lot of women who are young (and some unfortunately that are older) have only been with pump and dumpers and they have no idea of how unbelievably amazing sex can be with an attentive, sexually aware man. They don&rsquo;t know sex with a man that has been reading these blogs - a man that really knows that sex and foreplay start right inside a woman&rsquo;s mind.</p>
<p>So let&rsquo;s say you&rsquo;ve done it all right. You&rsquo;ve started with sex and foreplay, and you&rsquo;ve seduced her mind and you have her all turned on. How do you encourage this woman &ndash; who is basically very submissive in bed due to the fact that all of her experience is with Mr. Pump and Dump?</p>
<p>The reason why she is submissive, much of the time, is that she has never explored her own sexuality. A lot of women that have had pump and dumpers don&rsquo;t know what they want sexually, and they are usually women that have never masturbated. They don&rsquo;t know what feels good and what doesn&rsquo;t. Their only experience is with Mr. P &#038; D.</p>
<p>For those of you who think he is related to P &#038; G, you&rsquo;re absolutely incorrect. Pump and Dump is not Proctor &#038; Gamble - though I heard that Proctor &#038; Gamble makes their products for pump and dumpers. But it&rsquo;s just a rumor that I heard!</p>
<p>Anyway, how do you encourage this woman to open up to her own sexuality?</p>
<p>First of all, this woman may or may not have ever had an orgasm before. I would assume that she never has. She thinks she might be having an orgasm &ndash; it might be a momentary wave &ndash; but she is not having a full-blown orgasm.</p>
<p>If you ask her if she&rsquo;s had an orgasm, and she says, &ldquo;I think so&rdquo; &ndash; there is no &ldquo;I think so&rdquo; when it comes down to orgasms. Either you&rsquo;ve had one or you haven&rsquo;t! If a woman will tell you that she thinks she had an orgasm, it means that she has probably only experienced a little wave of pleasure and not a full orgasmic experience. Ladies, please chime in here and describe what a full orgasmic experience feels like so all the men know.</p>
<p>So let&rsquo;s assume that she&rsquo;s never had an orgasm. You&rsquo;ve got to become the teacher in this relationship. She is probably the type of woman that just expects you to do whatever you want to do, and she&rsquo;ll just lie there submissively.</p>
<p>So you need to show her slowly how amazing sex is. I would take some extra time and give her a full body massage. I would spend extra time kissing her and just touching her, everywhere except in her breast and her groin area.</p>
<p>I would take extra time when I go down on her and not only lick her, but to also touch all parts of her body also at the same time. I would also slip one finger inside as I was licking her in order to give her a different experience.</p>
<p>I wouldn&rsquo;t ask her if she is coming. I would just continually do all the things that I know bring pleasure to a woman, and I would ask her, &ldquo;how does that feel for you? Are you enjoying this? How do you like the pressure? I want to please you and I want to make you feel amazing.&rdquo; Don&rsquo;t say, &ldquo;I want to give you an orgasm.&rdquo; Don&rsquo;t tell her you want her to scream and yell. Just say, &ldquo;I want to make you feel wonderful. Okay?&rdquo;</p>
<p>And take your time. Allow her to open up and allow her to see sex in an entirely different light. Don&rsquo;t expect the magical orgasm right away. Don&rsquo;t expect her to open up immediately. Your only job is to show her &ndash; through a soothing, relaxing, attentive sexual session &ndash; just how great sex can be.</p>
<p>Another way to do it, too, is when you&rsquo;re having sex with her, is to do the opposite of what the pump and dumpers have done. Hold her really close to you so she can feel the tightness and feel the sensuality of sex, and then grind in very slowly as you pull her close to you. That way your pubic bone is actually massaging her clit at the same time. By doing that and staying deep inside her, you&rsquo;re going to give her feelings that she has not had before and you&rsquo;re going to get her to open up. You may actually get her to start having a clitoral orgasm that way, in time.</p>
<p>You are also going to show her a different side of sex, going to show her the sensuality of sex so that she can feel protected, warm, and nurtured during the experience.</p>
<p>Right now, all she feels is used. All she feels is that guys want to get inside, get off, and leave. So you&rsquo;ve got to deal with the fact that she was with Mr. P &#038; D. You&rsquo;ve got to be tender and warm, and you&rsquo;ve got to put absolutely no pressure on her at all.</p>
<p>By following these simple steps, you&rsquo;re going to make her feel really comfortable, and you&rsquo;re going to be able to get her to explore herself even more. She&rsquo;ll surrender herself to you, in time, but you need to be very patient - because the other guys, the Mr. P &#038; Ds, were not patient. It&rsquo;s your turn to be patient now.</p>
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		<title>Get On Top By Learning How To Talk Dirty To My Boyfriend</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ErikWillis</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Guys like to walk about town thinking that sex is all important for them but don&#8217;t seem to think what it means to a woman. Well, we know how important it is to us girls but we just aren&#8217;t as blatant or as basic as men are. It seems as though every decision they make [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Guys like to walk about town thinking that sex is all important for them but don&rsquo;t seem to think what it means to a woman. Well, we know how important it is to us girls but we just aren&rsquo;t as blatant or as basic as men are. It seems as though every decision they make is taken by their penis so why not use that fact to your advantage and start learning what to say to have a great time? You should be asking yourself if you know how to talk dirty to my boyfriend and if you don&rsquo;t, then it is time to get that changed. As we said, guys are simple beings and if you can learn the tricks to get them moving in the way you want, both of you are in for a swell time.</p>
<p>It is fair to say that many girls may be uncomfortable about taking the lead when it comes to the bedroom but we have moved on and these are enlightened times. If you think it&rsquo;s just about what the man wants then you need to take a look at yourself and realize that you deserve more. Taking the steps to knowing how to talk dirty to my boyfriend will ensure that your evening is good for both of you and not just for him.</p>
<p>It is fair to say that we are all looking for ways to add a little bit extra to our bedroom actions and there is no shame in admitting this. Adding some extra fun or a little kink here and there is nothing to be worried about and if the results come because of it, then who can blame you. It is all a matter of confidence but by taking some hints on what to say and when, you will know that there is no great secret in knowing how to talk dirty to my boyfriend.</p>
<p>It may seem as though everyone is a sex expert with advice and assistance for you to make things go better in the bedroom but it is all about finding what works for you to get the most fun and enjoyment out of life. There are no great secrets to knowing how to talk dirty to my boyfriend but there are many ideas and tips you can take along the way. Once you learn some ideas, it will be easy to shape them into how you feel and from here, you can say what you want in a way that is comfortable to you. As soon as you start saying it and you both get used to the action, the great times will follow quickly.</p>
<p>All this means that if you need a little help along the way to spicing up your bedroom fun that there is no point in being worried and help is at hand. There is a great website called How To Talk Dirty To My Boyfriend and it will have everything that you ever needed to know about finding the best words and mood to get your man purring with delight. A visit to <a href="http://www.HowToTalkDirtyToMyBoyfriend.com" title="http://www.HowToTalkDirtyToMyBoyfriend.com" target="_blank">http://www.HowToTalkDirtyToMyBoyfriend.com</a> is the place to be if you want to know everything about having fun where it matters.</p>
<p>How To Talk Dirty To My Boyfriend was started out of my desire to help women. From my research, I learned that there were a lot of women out there, who didn</p>
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		<title>Avoid Camping Conundrums: Advice For Beginning Campers</title>
		<link>http://www.blackmylar.com/2008/08/avoid-camping-conundrums-advice-for-beginning-campers/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>TomKnapp</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;re new to camping, it&#8217;s is a fun way to get away from it all, but it&#8217;s advisable to do your homework before heading out into the great outdoors to ensure a safe and enjoyable time for all.
One of the most tempting things to do after purchasing your tenting gear is to try it [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you&#8217;re new to camping, it&#8217;s is a fun way to get away from it all, but it&#8217;s advisable to do your homework before heading out into the great outdoors to ensure a safe and enjoyable time for all.</p>
<p>One of the most tempting things to do after purchasing your tenting gear is to try it out for the first time at the campground. Many a first-timer camper has fumbled for hours trying to set up a tent. Set tents up in the backyard before leaving for your camping vacation. Make sure the lanterns, camp stoves and other gear work properly. Try out the sleeping bags with an overnighter in your new tent prior to your trip. Another words, become familiar with your camping gear.</p>
<p>Find yourself feeling a little crowded in the new tent? It&#8217;s important to make space and comfort a priority when choosing a tent. For family camping, consider purchasing a tent with a capacity rated two higher than the number of campers that will use it. For example, a family of four should choose a 6-person tent. This is going to be your home away from home, so make sure the tent is big enough.</p>
<p>A checklist is an invaluable tool for campers. Imagine reaching the campground and find you&#8217;ve forgotten something. A checklist keeps you organized and prepared. Keeping a camping gear checklist will ensure you leave nothing behind. Use it while you&#8217;re packing up. As you become a more experienced camper, you can revise the list as needed.</p>
<p>First-time campers should consider arriving at the campground early to become acquainted with the layout, amenities and rules. This also gives you time to set up camp during daylight hours and meet your neighbors. Things go much more smoothly when you can see what you&#8217;re doing.</p>
<p>While you may be camping, this is not the time to skimp on meal planning. Figure out how many meals you&#8217;ll be making and prepare a menu ahead of time. Once a shopping list is made, head to the store a day or two before your departure. It may save you money as well. Snacks and treats at the local camping store may be more expensive than your local grocery store.</p>
<p>If the weather forecast is predicting foul weather, reconsider your camping plans. Nothing is more uncomfortable than sitting in a tent while the rain pounds down. And rain-soaked campsites can be muddy and messy. If stormy weather is in the forecast, reschedule your camping trip for another time.</p>
<p>For your first camping trip, choose a campground close to home. You may find out after a night of sleeping on the ground that you are not cut out to be a camper. You may run out of food or have gear trouble. The weather may change for the worse. Any number of things could happen to make you want to go home early. Camp close to home the first several times to work out any kinks.</p>
<p>When it comes time to break camp and head home, use a whisk broom or rags to wipe off gear as you stow it. Pack gear as you had it when you came to the campground. Make sure the campfire has been dowsed with water. Use excess water from your cooler to put the fire out completely. Gather all the trace. Your goal is to leave the area cleaner than you found it.</p>
<p>Here are some items that no camper should be without:</p>
<p>Bug Spray &ndash; nothing can spoil a camping trip faster than bugs</p>
<p>Batteries &ndash; Make sure batteries are installed in equipment that requires them and bring spare batteries too.</p>
<p>Bungee Cords &ndash; Cords can be used to bundle firewood, secure lids to coolers, and as clotheslines</p>
<p>Plastic Garbage Bags &ndash; Campers should keep a clean campsite and garbage bags are perfect for collecting and disposing of trash.</p>
<p>Lighter/Matches &ndash; Bring along extra lighters and matches and you&#8217;ll never be without a fire. Plastic bags are ideal for keeping them dry.</p>
<p>Utility/Camping Knives &ndash; whether you need to fillet a fish or trim a rope, knives are the handiest tools to have when camping. Multi-purpose models carry utility blades and accessories for a host of outdoor duties. Choose knives that easily tuck away for added safety.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.Safecutters.com">Safecutters</a> Inc., provides an online store of utility knife box cutters for opening shipping boxes and shipping packages, as well as safety knives to open moving boxes and packages. For more information about Klever Kutter and other Safecutters products contact us!</p>
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		<title>Overview of Three Popular Arcade Games</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>DanielMillions</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Modern arcade games have been around since the 1970s, although the more popular ones that most people are familiar with were created in the 1980s and early 90s. Currently, arcades are not as thrilling as they once were, especially since home consoles and computer games nearly rule the video game market. Many of the popular [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Modern arcade games have been around since the 1970s, although the more popular ones that most people are familiar with were created in the 1980s and early 90s. Currently, arcades are not as thrilling as they once were, especially since home consoles and computer games nearly rule the video game market. Many of the popular arcade games have been transferred to a console setting, so if you still want to play a classic arcade game, you can do so from the comfort of your own home.</p>
<p>Of the many arcade games that have been invented, there are a few that warrant in depth analysis due to their monumental impact. Mortal Kombat, created by Ed Boon and John Tobias, was released in arcades in 1992. It was a response to the hit game Street Fighter II, which at the time was one of the highest acclaimed fighting games. What made Mortal Kombat special, and controversial, was the incredible amount of violence. By pushing a unique combination of buttons, players could perform fatalities, which were intensely graphic ways of killing one&#8217;s opponent.</p>
<p>The games developers did this on purpose, as a way to generate controversy and thus publicity for the game, and their plan worked quite well; in fact, almost too well. Due to Mortal Kombat and a few other games like it, the Entertainment Software Rating Board, commonly known as the ESRB, was created to give ratings to games (such as E, T, and M). Mortal Kombat has been released on several different consoles, and two film adaptations have been made.</p>
<p>Street Fighter was conceptualized more than five years before Mortal Kombat, and was developed by the well known Japanese company Capcom. The game features several characters, the most popular being Ryu, who was only one of two characters (the other being Ken) available for play in the first street fighter. The ten other characters shown in the game could not be controlled by the player. The first Street Fighter did not develop much of a following, although it set the stage for sequels, all of which would gain a better following than the original.</p>
<p>Specifically, Street Fighter II initiated a strong fan base and essentially launched the fighting game genre in to widespread popularity. This was because eight characters could be played, and each had their own unique fighting style. The variety of characters enabled enhanced and prolonged game play, and some people even credit the game with extending the arcade era by a few years.</p>
<p>Rampage allowed up to three players to play at once, controlling various monsters with the purpose of destroying cities. The three monsters included a giant gorilla (George), a gigantic lizard (Lizzie), and a large werewolf (Ralph). Players could destroy buildings by punching, kicking, or jumping on them. You could also climb buildings and eat people and food along the way. Resistance was provided in a variety of forms, such as police, helicopters, tanks, and the army.</p>
<p>In addition, if you tried to eat the wrong thing, like an electrical appliance, you would take damage and fall off the building. When one&#8217;s life ran out, the monster would revert in to a naked human and walk embarrassingly off the screen. If multiple players were participating, another monster could even eat their human comrade. Several sequels have been created, including some of the Playstation 2, Gamecube, and Wii. No new installments are set to come out in the near future.</p>
<p>If you live video games you can <a href="http://www.allarcade.com">download free games</a> and get <a href="http://www.gamehq.net">free game downloads</a> at Game HQ.</p>
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